Always love. Hate will get you every time. Always love. Even when you want to fight.
Nice words, huh? Easier said than done. I've wanted to love for a long time, and honestly sometimes I do, and sometimes I don't I like to think I'm getting better at it, but not without thousands of hours of practice.
Honestly, I still haven't nailed down how to love in every environment. For example when I lived in New Brunswick, New Jersey for 3 months this year it was all I could do not to fight. It's a really oppressive place, see. Where I am right now it a very supportive and positive place, and my love generators are firing a lot anyway naturally, so it's easy to push them over the edge into constant yesness.
But I will say that in every phase of love I go through it seems to become easier and easier to embrace everything and say “perfect!”, so that's why I think practicing a lot really does help. So I'll keep doing this. It makes me really happy.
So keep practicing!
I love you.